Sunday, January 22, 2017

ECO-PSYCHOLOGY AND CHILDREN




 Q. Why do you emphasize the term eco-psychology so much? Is this more of your emphasis on placing children in nature?
A. Eco-psychology is a powerful term for this generation because of our appreciation for ecology in reference to planetary biomes. However, the term eco-psychology coined about a decade ago reaches deeper, into the inner terrains of children, to include psychological, physiological and even spiritual realities. The term “Deep Ecology”, offers a complementary reference to the power of nature’s energetic blueprints—to psychology that reaches deep into the hearts, minds and souls of children.
Eco-psychology bespeaks heart to heart relationships with children. Our urgent and immediate task as a society is to seek the means to free pent-up natural forces. As we begin to see the child through the eyes of the heart, we will replace current schooling regimes with organic, LIFE-affirming systems. Restorative powers inherent in the human family, will reveal astonishing generative potentials, enabling future generations to flourish.
The following example affirms the powerful life-promoting, healing power of nature’s substrata. When an enlightened society appreciate that this applies to children equally with forests, the places our children learn will be vitally alive centers of eco-psychology – that include nature’s playscapes.
In 1986 60,000 people in the Soviet Union were evacuated from the area surrounding the Chernobyl Nuclear Power plant after a catastrophic explosion released large quantities of radioactive particles into the atmosphere. Prior to this the society had leveled thousands of acres of forest to install farms, roads and buildings.  Yet, less than three decades later a team of scientists has discovered there a remarkable rebirth, a primeval forest teaming with life.  Wildlife including wolves, moose, bears, beavers and bison are thriving in the self-restoring ecosystem. Nature, freed from mankind’s controlling, leveling, destructive tendencies, has restored a profusion of living potential in realms of breathtaking beauty.


Sunday, May 15, 2016

THE GEMUN DELEGATES



Let us find ways to bring a sense of joy and meaning to everything the children do.  Otherwise we are wasting a vast reservoir of potential that this dynamic duo triggers.
Preparations for Global Elementary Model United Nations, headed up by Nina, require lots of research, appreciation for world problems, thoughtful solution seeking, and clear articulation. Nina brings in lots of resources and media to spark lively discussions through the year and invite the delegates' ideas.
The Teaching Story, this year, Journey to the Acropolis: A Story of Ancient Greece, and a trip to the Greek Orthodox Church Spring Festival helped acquaint the students with the history, the heroes, the foods, the myths and legends, the culture.
Some children have strong nudges from their parents, but the idea is for them to choose to attend Global Elementary Model United Nations and read their resolutions.
Excitement and apprehension grow apace as the children complete their Resolutions for a self-chosen topic. Children who are more apprehensive or younger, can choose to be pages. This group learns about the proceedings through osmosis as they retrieve and deliver delegate notes sent between the committees.
Group Mural-Making, to combine artistic thumbnails representative of Greek Culture in one piece of art, provides a way for the delegates to relax and paint together. Sometimes this year they even broke into song while they were painting. Their sweet clear voices brought tears to my eyes.  To watch the artistic collaboration unfold day by day is always a wonderful experience.
Oksana, their art teacher and passionate proponent of the Banner of Peace, orchestrated the group much like the leader of an orchestra. She gestured upward, “How about clouds here?” She gestured across the Mural, “How about a Greek Orthodox Church here?” She pointed to the central Banner of Peace. “Who will sketch the person that is holding the Banner?” The painters freely added their own touches, while there was always someone eager to fulfill Oksana’s suggestions.
The last weeks the two Ambassadors prepared their speeches to give to an audience of over four-hundred delegates representing many countries.
On Friday at Brook Haven College the delegates dress in costume to add to the authentic flavor of the day in which they role-play as Greek delegates. GEMUN (Global Elementary Model United Nations) offers the children role-playing at its finest. In their committees such as ECOSOC, UNEP, and UNESCO, the children read their resolutions, caucus, amend, defend, and vote.
On Saturday, during committee breaks, the children enjoy each other’s displays in the main hall. Ours included the mural along with a table display. By the end of Saturday after the award ceremony for outstanding delegates, and introduction of next year’s Secretary General, tiredness enters the children’s exuberance.
Rich and varied experience, including you may recall from my last blog, the Greek plays, have brought living vibrant opportunities for intellectual, creative and social growth to the children - individually and collectively.  The feed back through the years has been that these times are treasured and memorable milestones in children’s lives.
Learning at its best stimulates growth through joy, for joy is a special wisdom.

Sunday, May 8, 2016

JOURNEY TO THE ACROPOLIS



Recently I heard of a little girl who tries to hard in her school to do the assigned tasks well, to please the teacher – to do EVERYTHING RIGHT. Yet, for the third or forth time, the awards at the assembly went to others.
When the assembly was over, her teacher said, “Now I don’t want to see any tears.”
So she didn’t. The little girl went into the bathroom to weep tears of let down and grief, and a sense of betrayal.
This makes me want to cry too. Sadly, our society deems competition for these awards necessary to motivate groups of children. A relatively small number wins. The majority feels less than, inadequate.
There are other ways to motivate that are more effective, kinder and include EVERYONE in the rewards. And by rewards I don’t mean extrinsic rewards like certificates, trinkets and being singled out for public recognition, etc. Such rewards are for training animals, not for reaching the hearts and minds of human children.
Children have great dignity, self-discipline and intrinsic (inner) motivation when they are treated as if they have such capacity. 
There are many more effective, kinder ways to motivate individuals and groups. The following is an example of one way.
At the Living Ethics School we blend fact and fiction in stories, the way indigenous peoples teach their children. This is to heighten the children’s interest in learning various topics. Our recent unit entitled Journey to the Acropolis pivoted on a 10 lesson teaching story that lasted 5 wks. The carefully researched stories interwove facts of Ancient Greece, accounts of famous historical characters, and Greek Mythology. The children painted while listening to the lessons to foster open, receptive brains, while creatively engaged.
At no point was the goal a quiz, a test, a grade, and/or awards for the best whatevers. Our main goal is to support a life long love of learning through joy in learning.
The children really liked the inclusion of the mythology. Before the lessons had even finished they were suggesting plays and clamoring for the parts they wanted to perform.
They helped the teacher brainstorm and begin rough drafts for the plays. Then the teacher fine tuned them. (Initiative, recall, planning, collaboration.) 
The plays performed by the various ages in elementary and upper elementary included:  
The Naming of Athens (Zeus had to choose between naming the new city after Posiedon or Athena).
The Minotaur (The brave Theseus, with the help of Princess Ariadne, found his way through the labyrinth to face down and kill the dreaded Minotaur.)
Helen And the Trojan War
Jason and the Argonauts
The Journeys of Odysseus
Sometimes two or more people wanted the same part. The teacher deftly stayed out of this, so the group assigned student judges to choose. The judges agreed to judge based on acting ability rather than personal friendship or popularity. (Ethics, self-government)
Practicing the plays required lots of reading, memorization and tiresome repetition. Some young first timers didn’t make it all the way through. They needed to see the performances at Presentation Night to be more motivated to persevere next opportunity.  (The pay off for perseverance – the performance.)
The prefrontal lobes were firing, the creative juices flowing, opportunities for cooperation numerous, as the children designed backdrops, costumes and props. (Their eyes were bright, their behavior focused and self-disciplined as they worked together.)
The performance, being akin to their own pretend play, was a source of enjoyment and interior reward for the narrators, set designers and cast. (Joy)
The attentiveness and appreciative applause of the audience was a way to include ALL in the many rewards of this process. (Attentiveness, support, and appreciation – great motivators from parents and teachers.)
No tests. No grades. No award assemblies. No woeful tears due to being overlooked. Just children engaged in self-challenges they naturally take on. The secret is to treat them with respect for the high potentials that reside in the heart of each child, eager and ready for expression.
JOY IS A SPECIAL WISDOM.




Sunday, May 1, 2016

THE MAY FESTIVAL




Joyful festivity, planning, preparation and hard work are strung together aspects of a whole, like pearls on a necklace.
An Intelligence deep inside each of us resonates to this truth. When we witness the purposeful labors and beauty of completion we feel a profound response. But experiencing it takes us to the Unified Field of work/play where Joy is a Special Wisdom.
The greatest cluster of endorphin transmitters in the human body is in the pre-frontal lobes where we generate new ideas and elaborate on them. This forebrain, is the orchestrator of the whole brain, calling on various centers' contributions to planning, design, creation, innovation, collaboration, etc. for completion of some project.
The only conclusion we can draw from the brain research of the past decade is that the way to activate our children’s greatest intelligence is by firing those endorphin transmitters through meaningful engagement that brings them joy.
The May Festival the other day was like the pearl necklace. The children had to work hard for three weeks to learn the patterns of the Maypole dance. The first weeks Nina had them practice dancing the patterns without the ribbons in the shade. But the last 7 days they held the ribbons of the May pole practicing several complex patterns.
By then the temperature had climbed and the hot sun beat down on them. But many remembered the process from the previous year, and had learned it was worth it. Some of the newer and younger ones stayed away the first days. Too much work. Too hot. And they couldn’t yet anticipate the end result.
We figured out a way to make even the practice days festive. We found the largest metal bowl we own and filled it with cold water, including a tray of ice cubes. Then we rolled up 20 white hand towels and soaked them in the icy cold water.
As the hot sun beat down on their heads, the dancers could see the metal bowl that awaited them on the picnic table in the shade. They danced on, shouting to the preparer of the bowl, “You are my favorite person today!”
When Nina ended the practice sessions, the dancers became runners through the prairie, and with a great shout headed for the bowl. Then there were exclamations of pleasure as they drenched their heads, faces and necks in the cool water.
The ones who didn’t practice were given towels also, but they didn’t enjoy them half as much. By the final sessions, even the reluctant younger ones were drawn in to the work/play process.
Of course, the real completion of the pearl necklace came Saturday, when they performed the dance to the rousing Irish music for an appreciative audience.
Next year the ones that hung back at first, will very likely realize that hot, tiring practices, cool wet towels, and rewarding performances go together.
The time has come to insert into our halls of learning the lost knowledge that truly rewarding human expression is both challenging and Joyful: For Joy is a special wisdom.

Sunday, April 24, 2016

THE CORN PLANTERS



Planting gardens and trees touches a resounding chord in the body/heart/mind/soul symphony that is us – an expression of our connectedness to Earth and the Kingdom of Plants. The growing number of community and backyard gardens reflects a deep yearning in people living in cities. There are many layers to the beneficial effects when families and communities tend gardens.
The family value of planting, tending and harvesting a garden is more than the sum of its parts. One aspect is the research that often precedes and accompanies growing organic produce for the nutritional advantages. Another value is the joy of turning dirt into soil filled with organic matter that feeds the organisms that feed the plants. Then there’s the shared enjoyment of planting seeds and/or seedlings and watching them grow. The excitement over fruitage follows this, with the anticipation of the day of picking the ripe vegetable or fruit. And finally, it’s deeply satisfying to know that you are feeding your body, and your family’s bodies the best, the freshest, the most nutritious food you can offer.
But, as I said, the value of the process is greater than the sum of its parts. The book Hotevilla by Thomas Mails and the Hopi Elder Dan Evehema hold important clues as to this overarching benefit, especially for modern families living in modern neighborhoods. The painter E.A. Burbank, named “Many Brushes” by the Hopi, admired their industriousness and declared he had “never known a more charming, hospitable, and peace-loving people.”
Farming among the Hopi was the domain of the men and boys. The farms were handed down from generation to generation and were the joint property of the people of the village. From a young age the boys accompanied their fathers for the planting of the corn. They learned to offer heartfelt prayers for this, the first among a series of sacred steps. 
Because of the sandstorms the farmers had to build mound fortifications to protect the tender plants. Additional threats came from crows and ground rats waiting for a chance to eat the corn stalks. The farmers had to take turns standing as sentinels or waiting all day long in an adjacent hut watching for invaders.
When father returned home from the fields he often picked up his toddler to sing corn-planting songs and dance the gentle rhythms with his child in his arms.
When the corn matured all the children witnessed the next stages of food production, which the women and girls managed. By pulverizing the grain between two stones they ground the corn into a fine meal. Then the women and teen girls made “piki” together. After mixing the cornmeal with water and lye, they cooked the tortilla-like flat bread over a flat stone with a fire underneath. Stomachs surely rumbled as they smelled the bread, which they had all helped generate, cooking
Droughts taught the Hopi to store enough grain for two years.
Many children could name the herbs and their medicinal value with authority that approached that of the adults.
Have you gleaned all the life-lessons, all the intrinsic motivation, all the industrious sharing whole families can experience by planting, tending , harvesting, cooking and eating food they have nurtured from seed to fruit in their family plot?
Most of us are really glad to own labor-saving devices. However, in modern homes neighborhoods, there is very little for children to do. In many households their primary escape from boredom is a device that holds the body and mind captive for extended periods of time.
Today our idea of children’s household chores has devolved mainly into clean-up, something that many of us view as a tiresome, unpleasant addendum to an enjoyable activity. Do we want our children to perceive work as unpleasant and only entertainment as innately satisfying?
The health benefits of garden prep, tending and harvesting include healthful workouts that surpass gym routines in multilayered benefits. A family garden offers at least one shared household labor that can involve high-interest and participation in a process that is ongoing for a several months. Gardens can bring families together in labor that is meaningful and purposeful and therefore innately satisfying.
Although we may not hold ceremonial dances, as do the Hopi, to celebrate the harvest, gardens offer each family a reason to joyfully celebrate, each in their own way, the bountiful gifts of a Living, Generous World.  Such Joy is a Special Wisdom.

Sunday, April 17, 2016

NATURE INTELLIGENCE




Nature intelligence is the Eighth of the Multiple Intelligences, which Howard Gardner added a few years after his book Multiple Intelligence was published.
Still a few years after that the book Last Child in the Woods by Richard Louv was published.
I loved that book, which confirmed what we were already seeing by providing children wild spaces to play here at the Living Ethics School. If you’ve been reading my blog since last year, you know that I have returned to this topic and quoted Richard Louv repeatedly.
Nature is the Great Teacher of children. Her wild spaces are their Natural Habitat. She offers an optimal space for the cultivation of imagination, multiple intelligence, conflict resolution, collaborative construction projects, optimal emotional/mental/mind/body health. Every day as the staff of the Living Ethics School watches our children happily engaged in nature, we know that this time, outside the classroom, away from phonics and multiplication tables, is optimal time for the children fullest development.
The Children’s Village is a place to haul logs, tires, planks, freshly cut branches, ply wood, rope, etc. for construction purposes.
It’s also a place for disagreements that require conflict resolution, sometimes mediation and other times group meetings to brainstorm to reach a consensus on property rights, and rules and regulations – just like in the real world.
For over thirty years I’ve observed the morphing populations. In the years we had mostly boys, the tree houses and cleared out spaces under trees enclosed by vines and shrubs became mostly forts. The would-be warriors stored itchy bombs (Sycamore seed balls) and spear grass from the prairie to attack hapless passerbys.
Those are the same years the kids dug a hole enlarging it month by month until it would fit several children waist deep. The added value of the big hole was that it would fill with water and several were sure to ‘accidently’ fall in during a heavy rain.
In the years we had a balance of girls and boys, the Children’s village became towns with banks, hotels, a post office, shops for selling knitted crafts and beaded jewelry, clay or paper money, a newsletter, police, and election campaigns for mayors.
More recently with a mostly female population, along with household construction, miscellaneous pans, small bowls and other containers along with utensils have been  spirited outside for baking purposes. Nearby teachers are rounded up to sit in their kitchens or resturants and sample their dishes.
We watch them strolling in pairs around the fields, chasing each other, climbing trees, hammering, sawing, stomping in low lying muddy areas and know that each child’s emotional/mind/body/spirit complex is being exercised for vibrant health and stimulation of the Mutltiple Intelligences. Sometimes hidden tree limbs comfort wounded feelings until someone comes to offer empathy.
We see all this and its tremendous value to children and grieve about a society that has lost sight of childhood – especially the importance of children playing daily in wild spaces.
The fact is all the intelligences count. The consideration of these various keys to uniquely individual children; of what types of activities they initiate on their own in a dynamic environment; of what activities bring them joy; of what type of environment makes them want to come to school; of empathic respectful treatment under the guidance of caring adults; of time for them to create, to invent, to play and be children – this is not fluff. This fullness of childhood is the foundation for the full stature of adulthood.
There are no effective make-up exercises in adulthood for childhood lost. To postpone consideration for these humane considerations, the appreciation for the whole being while still a child, until adulthood, is often too late. And it’s costly for the thousands who have to spend time in therapy because of childhoods lost and miserable adult live stuck in soulless jobs that make good money.
The current mania for driving children faster and faster, harder and harder, for longer hours a day (homework), testing them more and more, judging, grading their efforts is not making them more intelligent. The only way to do that is to tap the nature-endowed intelligence in the attractive, vibrant ways that engage a child’s attention naturally. In dynamic, child friendly environments children are interiorly motivated to learn, without exterior motivators like rewards and grades.
I realize you are not likely to read the hundreds of books I have read on the more humane and enlightened guidance and education of children all the way through high school. That is why I write this blog. To share bits of Tolstoy, Steiner, Montessori, Holt, Gardner and others with you, so that you collectively will take charge and urge others to do the same – to restore childhood to children.
Some of you have opted out of the system by home schooling. You have the precious freedom to recognize and respond to the interests and proclivities of your children each a unique individual even in the same family. However, many of you have no choice but to send your children to a pressure and competition driven school – public or private. Yet, you pay the taxes or tuition for a system that is caught up in a corporate clone escalator that is as mindless as the curriculums it’s pressing on children. Ironically, the system would probably say that much of the pressure comes from the parents themselves!
Your voice matters. If it will not be heard individually, it will be collectively. Let us speak up to defend the right of children to childhood – to play daily in wild nature, to question, to initiate their own explorations, to learn as encouraged, cherished individuals. Think how much such on-fire graduates on intimate terms with their passionate interests could do for humanity!
Think of a world in which the dollar is not the bottom line; in which passion to contribute one’s unique labor and talents for the benefit of the world is the measure of success!

Sunday, April 10, 2016

INTRA-PERSONAL INTELLIGENCE



Plato admonished us above all to “Know Thyself.” Yet, commandeering several hours of a child’s day for schoolwork and homework focused on the three R’s leaves little time to play, to dream, to know thyself. Anxious parents, unwittingly escalate this system of hoops and measures that fails to promote the deepest, highest, and most human potentials. These potentials, once awakened lead not to mere jobs or careers, but to lives of passionate involvement with one’s chosen life work; to vocations that are also avocations, i.e. lives replete with joyful fulfillment.
Howard Gardner, author of Multiple Intelligences asserts that along with higher thinking such as the generating and pondering of ideas, and empathy, the frontal lobes play a central role in intrapersonal intelligence.  Whereas, interpersonal intelligence allows one to understand and work with others, intrapersonal intelligence allows one to understand and work with oneself.
My own observation is that those who at least have one empathic role model in childhood are more likely to achieve the intrapersonal intelligence that leads to a soul satisfying vocation. In my case that role model was my mother. To her compassionate, understanding guidance, I attribute knowing from a young age that I wanted to become a teacher, not to constrain their exuberance, but to promote their love of learning.
Yesterday, I had the great joy of witnessing, crowds of awestruck people exclaim over the extraordinary beauty of my life partner’s photography at “Art in Bloom” in Mckinney, Texas.  People came forward to peer behind the photographs and ask if a hidden light source illumined his photos.
Fred discovered his love of photography, and corresponding talent for it, in his fifties. It has been a joy to observe his emergence from a career that simply earned him a living, to this passionate involvement with capturing nature’s beauty with his photography.
People were astonished that this was the 68 year old’s first photography show. When I ponder why this extraordinary talent emerged at all, I credit his close relationship with a very kind and caring mother who accepted him for who he was. Why do I think it took so long for Fred to ‘know his passion’? Because of being pressed into a left-brain, non-creative societal bias and schooling from childhood on. At a loss as to how to develop the soulful expression of a human being, we devalue and negate its power for personal transformation.
According to Kathryn Bensinger, author of The Art of Using your Whole Brain, droves of people end up in the therapist’s office in their forties. Many were told as young adults to put aside foolish dreams and earn degrees for practical professions that would earn them decent wages.  These include people from all walks of life: Accountants who put aside their art at a young age; office managers who long to work with the soil; business professional who would rather be homemakers; house painters who are frustrated writers, and on and on--all miserable; many on the brink of a new beginning based on intra-personal intelligence or self-knowledge.
It takes courage and commitment to allow both children and ourselves to follow the path less traveled. For those of any age, who are awakening to their intrapersonal intelligence, to the inner voice that connects them to their deepest, highest, most meaningful, and therefore joyful modes of self-expression—these true and inspiring words of Goethe offer a guiding light:

COMMITMENT
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy,
The chance to draw back,
Always ineffectiveness.

Concerning acts of initiative and creation,
There is one elementary truth,
The ignorance of which, kills
Countless ideas and splendid plans:
That the moment one definitely commits oneself,
Then providence moves too.

All sorts of things occur to help one
That would never otherwise have occurred.
A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
Raising, in one’s favor all manner
Of unforeseen incidents and meetings
And material assistance which
No one could have dreamt would come their way.

Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
Begin it now.

                                                                        Johann Wolfgang Goethe